This can be applied to writing, select your words the same way. Your sentences, your plot, they should create a story, a style and a look that is all you.
In life: control your when reacting with anger or hurt. To control your thoughts, can direct how your day, your life and everything else. Our own minds lie to us.
Someone can tell you that you’re pretty, but until your mind lets you see it yourself. You won’t believe it. Select your thoughts carefully.