The day hubby came home, I posted the “unacceptable, horrible post”. They sent me home fragmented bones. Not ash, I cannot spread bones. When I complained and asked for an explanation the employee at the Chinese company handling things sent me a picture of my husband.
On the day he was cremated….
in a yellow body bag…
after 30 days.
I was in no mental condition to deal with that, there was no warning that it was in the email. I opened it up and there it was. I’m now plagued by nightmares. I’ve dreamt his box got knocked over and that his skull fell out of the bag, I’ve dreamt of him the way he was in that picture. I’ve woken up crying and shaking. I’m an emotional mess, I get angry and cry a lot. I sleep a lot. I am looking into getting some grief counseling and legal advice.