Grief and coping with losing hubby

EDITED: This is a post from 08-2016 Everything sucks…

Sorry for any confusion, this was a scheduled post but it was from August of 2016 in the middle of everything. Trying to move back home to family and sort things out. I’m not sure why it wasn’t posted back then… 

I am doing well right now. Everything is fine in Kaw-ville. Except there’s no work in my small town and I’m still looking for a job. I am going to counseling again, getting my head straight. Should be looking up now. 🙂 


I’m trying to get home to my family, but it’s hard and there’s so much to do. The financial side of things suck, “We’ll take care of you.” Turned out to have strings attached and meant for a week or two…

I was offered some help from my old boss and family friend but… things happened and now I don’t know if that’s going to pan out or not. 

The offer of manpower to help load was given but- only a handful of people showed up. 

Family members were supposed to come back and help with the driving but-

Workman’s comp claim? Denied…

Hubby’s employer tried to make a nice gesture, but lawyers got involved and that went sideways. Would have been really nice  since I didn’t even get a sympathy card from the company but- *shrug*

My landlord rented my house, I don’t have a place in my hometown because no one wants to take a chance on a widow with no job or income. I can’t stay here…. and now I’m effectively homeless.

A word to the wise, make sure your ducks in a row nowbefore something happens. You’re not promised tomorrow and you could be leaving your significant other up a creek without a paddle while trying to deal with your loss.

Oh and as if that’s not bad enough… a fricking hurricane is trying to form in the gulf and it was headed for Texas, but then decided I didn’t have enough Chit to deal with.. and changed course to make a beeline for my house.

Awesome… just freaking awesome.

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